Living the Swinger Lifestyle in the 21st Century

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The swinger lifestyle and swinging community in 21ition have rules to always follow when it is your first time engaging in it. Swinging is an everyday, normal human activity. It is an average, natural human behavior. You can not turn on a swinger club and expect to suddenly become James Bond or some other secret agent. But the rules of the swinger lifestyle still apply even though some people have left the lifestyle.

One of the main principles of the swinger lifestyle is to always have multiple sexual partners. Having only one sexual partner in a relationship is frowned upon by many of the older swingers. They feel as though they are depriving their women of the experience of being with a man and a woman at the same time. So they have to have several sexual partners.

In the swinging swinger communities, couples go out on several dates before, during, and after the swinger party. This is what is known as swinger night. Many couples will remain together for the entire night. Some couples even have threesome or four way dates, where each partner has a partner from opposite sides of the couples.

Another rule in the swinger lifestyle is that the women are often the dominant partners in the swinging experience. Some couples will take turns being dominant and sometimes one partner will be dominant and other will be submissive. This may seem odd to some people, but it is a way of the swinging lifestyle to keep the women involved. In some cases, it may be the submissive partner who decides to stop enjoying the activities that the dominant partner was involved in.

The swinger lifestyle also encourages open communication between partners. If there is a particular wish that cannot be fulfilled, it is left to the free will of each partner. It also encourages trust between the partners and it does not matter how much you want your partner to be submissive or dominant sexually. As long as you two are comfortable with each other, there is no need for domination or sexual preference to be written into the contract. In fact, you do not even need to talk about those things if you do not wish to.

One of the things that I found to be refreshing about my swinging years is that we never talked about sex. People assume that all swingers are sexual deviants. However, if you do not discuss your desires, there is no way to know what you might not like. This allowed us to make our own decisions on things such as which positions we preferred. It also allowed us to experiment on each other without fear of rejection or ridicule. As a result, we ended up forming a strong bond, which translated into a healthy relationship.

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